Who are You Not To Be Like Me?

I have been unemployed turned self-employed since early May of this year. I had just moved into my new apartment 10 days prior-excellent timing (sarcasm intended). I worked for a SAAS company that shall remain nameless and was abruptly terminated. Terminated was the word they used when they called me out of the blue, while I was […]

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I Am Breaking Up With You

I don’t love you anymore. Every morning when I wake up,  I know for certain I don’t want to be with you anymore. I can’t even say you give me pause, you give me stop. Stop looking me and lying straight to my face. Stop acting like you have my best interest at heart. All you […]

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Where is the evidence of your love?

I mentioned earlier in a previous post that this is not a spiritual blog. This is a love blog written by a spiritual person. I felt that needed to be reiterated. God has shaped my human experience in myriad of ways and one of those ways is by His love. Don’t look too deep into […]

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Love: Fact or Feeling?

I love God and have been a Christian for 20 years but this is not a spiritual blog. I write about love but faith is another matter entirely. God co-authors the story of my life, so he will be mentioned in my narrative from time to time. You have your viewpoint and I have mine. Of course, both are […]

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The Absence of Relationship Skills

I have no relationship skills. Why didn’t anyone tell me that I don’t know how to be in a real relationship? I am in my 30’s and my longest relationship was for 1 &1/2 years. After the 280 likes  we received on FB for our relationship announcement post, it clearly dawned on me that I […]

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Tinder App: Not Just For Hook-ups

I am trying to let the fact that I met him on Tinder not mess with me. After one week of Tinderizing…I met the sweetest and most thoughtful guy. We texted for the first few days then he asked if he could call me. I was shocked by that. Most Tinderonis ask what time you can […]

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Love in the Hook-up Culture

​ I am afraid that I am losing myself. I used to be so popular and everyone wanted me but now it seems as if I have no value. I am often over-looked and people take me for granted. This concerns me greatly because I want to contribute to the lives of others. I have […]

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